Blog

A Webcomic Recommendation

I love webcomics! “Loving Reaper” made its way into my Instagram feed some time last year. I adore how Ms. Jinya frames death as a gentle and kind entity. She captures such a wide range of emotions in her work. For me, from literally laughing out loud to tears. The one below is one of my favorite funny ones.

This one captures the sad category.

Thought I opted to use embeds from Instagram, it looks like she is more active on Webtoons. And here’s her website.

I highly recommend her work and hope you enjoy it as much as I do. Do you have favorites? Let me know!

Video: I didn’t have friends most of my life – being ‘unsocial’ and finding belonging

brown wooden cottage at the field during day

As an introvert, I find this video wonderful. She does a great job summarizing my thoughts and feelings, especially my childhood and young-adult-hood. I, too, took a long-time to discover my people, and the way I relate to the world.

I, too, grew up in a military family. I, too, found it challenging to make connections. Eventually, I figured out that I only needed a few, close friends. That I really don’t want my life to be frenetic, a blizzard of activity with tons of friends. It took years, YEARS to discover that, then come to terms with it. But I have, and I’m glad.

More Tech Sector Layoffs

man in white shirt using macbook pro

Yesterday, I came across this video from an HR guy I follow.

Then I read this article this morning about more layoffs, specifically at Google.

Google Cuts Hundreds of Jobs in Engineering and Other Divisions

So, even more layoff pain in the tech sector as we launch into 2024. My heart goes out to my friends at Google, Meta, and Amazon. It’s a hard time to be in tech.

I wonder when we’ll see a rebound. I’ve seen some guesses about later this year, or 2025. That’s really hard to guess. It will, I’m sure. But what will the economy look like when that happens?

What I’m confident in, though, is that the market has changed and keeping up on those changes will be critical. I need to proactively manage my career. Which is a bit intimidating, but also liberating.

Anyway, onwards.

Some Words Of Wisdom

pensive grandmother with granddaughter having interesting conversation while cooking together in light modern kitchen

I came across this gem recently, and I think it’s very valuable advice to consider during this season of planning and resolutions.

For me, I see a reminder that we all have limits. So, in planning our lives, it’s critical to remember those limits. Some people have no qualms with taking until we’re empty husks. And many more very well-meaning folks simply won’t see the signs that you’re limits are getting hit without explicit notification.

So, my friends, take care of yourself. You are worth it.